Tag Archives: Coping

Surfing For Peace

“You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” ― Jon Kabat-Zinn It’s 1.30 a.m. and you find yourself jolted out of sleep. After you’ve allowed yourself to waken fully you become aware that you are thinking about the … Continue reading

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Have You Been Bullied By A Family Member?

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Peace

“Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.” – Unknown We, who … Continue reading

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Boundaries: Not So Black and White?

“In a perfect world everything would be either black or white, right or wrong, and everyone would know the difference. But this isn’t a perfect world. The problem is people who think it is.”  — Neal Shusterman If you have been … Continue reading

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Doing Grief, Feeling Grief

“It’s good to do uncomfortable things. It’s weight training for life.” ~Anne Lamott I have been speaking throughout the last few days about the expression of grieving, which is foundational to moving forward after the loss or termination of a … Continue reading

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