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Disenfranchised

“Disenfranchised grief is the grief that persons experience when they incur a loss that is not or cannot be openly acknowledged, publicly mourned, or socially supported.” – Kenneth Doka, Disenfranchised Grief: Recognizing Hidden Sorrow I’ve been hard at work reading … Continue reading

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I’m Still Sad

“There is a bias that runs through so much of the older literature on how human beings respond to loss … there is a tendency to under-estimate how intensely distressing and disabling loss usually is and for how long the … Continue reading

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The Way Forward

“We cannot take more than one step at a time.” ― Orison Swett Marden “How do I survive estrangement?”  If  had a dollar for each time someone asked me this, I would be a wealthy woman. When we are deep in … Continue reading

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It’s A Journey

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” ~Laozi When we physically injure ourselves, or become ill – we know that getting better might take some time. We know that we will have to go through the … Continue reading

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Enough Is Enough Is Enough

“Tragedies are all right for a while: you are concerned, you are curious, you feel good. And then it gets repetitive, it doesn’t advance, it grows dreadfully boring: it is so very boring, even for me.” ~Simone de Beauvoir Many … Continue reading

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