Tag Archives: self protection

New Year’s Resolution: No More Skinny Love

Who will love you? Who will fight? And who will fall far behind? – Bon Ivar, Skinny Love Lyrics We are hitting the time of making New Year’s resolutions and thinking about the things that will make the year ahead … Continue reading

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Feeling Fear, Taking Risks Anyway

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Love and Vulnerability

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. … Continue reading

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Fear

Fear. It creates anger and selfishness. They sit together, supporting each other, as inseparable as red, orange and yellow on the spectrum.  – Seth Godin Fear can be an ever present hum for many of us who are working with estrangement issues. We … Continue reading

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Estrangement and The Mean World Syndrome

 In a violent and threatening world we are readier to fear ‘others’. We mistrust more, and polarize more fiercely into our groups in pursuit of the protection afforded to social animals by tribal unity and cohesion. A Mean World is … Continue reading

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